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    curious but shy with anal....
    lioness_10 posted:
    to a guy its another hole his member gets to explore....
    for you it is the most uncomfortable feeling besides labor (for me)...

    or is it....

    use a water-based lube if using a condom....
    if you cannot relax your to your partner about bringing in a toy (i prefer a vibrator.) and either you or him use it on you before and while performing anal...

    the distraction will relax you plus the vibrator will do its job...and it turns out to be an amazing orgasm....
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    An_210659 responded:
    me and my gf tired anal but she said it hurts to much the next best thing i did was when i was eating her out i got my middle finger wet from her and slowly worked it up her behind till i got it all the way in and it drove her wild and she loved it..when i stopped licking her and kept in finger in her butt she said that she loved it and wanted to get used to it ..
    LoveMyGuy replied to An_210659's response:
    Scroll back a few days to find my post called "Anal Sex, One Woman's Experience" I hope my experiences and what I wrote will help you with this subject.

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