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it's not okay to hav sez on the first date
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bluewater123456789 posted:
it's not okay to have sex on the first because she migth worry that she won't hear from him again or get another phone waiting by the phone it's not healthy for her she will have trust issues she will think every man in this world is out for one thing it will be very hard for her to date again and trust especially a man trust me i know when a woman have sex on the first date she will be called all kinds of names no woman in this world won't that especially black woman trust me i know because i am black woman i live with my boyfriend of one year and we waited for two months and now we are still together we have a very honset open realtionship we talk about everything sometimes he can be a pain the butt
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Elle0317 responded:
that has to be the most gender-bias posts I've ever heard. Ever the term, what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Why is the man not worried about getting that phone call? Does he develop trust issues too? What names will he be called? I'm not even going to touch the racial issue you brought up. I feel like I've been put in a time machine and thrown back to 1925.
 
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caramelskin01 replied to Elle0317's response:
I think what she is trying to say is dont have sex on the first date because men wont call back. And that a women will consider a man a "DOG". And that she will think every man is a "DOG". And she is saying this from black womans point of view. I THINK??? Oh and that we will be called names like"B**** and H**.
I think its from her point of view as a black women.
As a black women I dont agree with 99% of the things she just posted. I would point them out but we would be here all day....
 
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bluewater123456789 replied to Elle0317's response:
WHAT I'M SAYING IS THAT IT'S NOT OKAY TO HAVE SEX ON A FIRST DATE FOR THE RECORD I'M NOT PREJUDI I LOVE EVERY BODY IN THIS WORLD AND I'M NOT BIAS AT ALL IWAS GIVING MY OPINION I KNOW FIRST HAND IT'S NOT OKAY TO HAVE SEX ON THE FIRST DATE AS WOMANS WILLBE CALLED KINDS OF NAMES THAT'S HOW MENS ARE IN THIS WORLD I'AM A OLDER WOMAN KNOWS WHAT I'AM TALKING ABOUT FOR MY POINT OF VEIW
 
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caramelskin01 replied to bluewater123456789's response:
I feel what you are saying....Thats somewhat very true.

75% of women know this already as a fact. You shouldnt sleepwith a man on the first date. But 25% of us do anyway.
Some because they are feeling this person at the time, some to get their grove back, and some to get the codd webs from down there.
Some men are like that and some are not. Some will call you a name if you do it on the first date. And some will still do that many months after you date them. So its"DAMED IF YOU DO AND DAMED IF YOU DONT''

There are men whom dont care. They still respect you in the morning. And guess what...women call other women names too. And we are harder on each other.

To each its on.No I wouldnt sleep with someone on the first date. But thoes are my rules. i dont think any less of a women if she does have sex onthe first date. I have known peps who have and they are still together today. And then I have heard men talk a women they never slept with. He mad because she didnt have sex. And called her all kinds of names....Every man is differ and none are the same.

IT'S NOT WHAT THEY CALL YOU..IT'S WHAT YOU ANSWER TO...
 
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bluewater123456789 replied to caramelskin01's response:
TO EACH ITS OWN FINE WITH ME WHATEVER I WAS JUST LEAVING MY OPINION THAT'S ALL I DID'NT KNOW IT WAS A SORE SUBJECT I DON'T THINK LESS OF ANY WOMANS IN THIS WORLD IT'S ALL GOOD FORM HERE
 
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caramelskin01 replied to bluewater123456789's response:
I replied but it didnt go through...may do it twice....No..this is a very good subject. Everyone will have their own opinion. This subject has always been a "hmmm" subject.You prob witness like i have. I feel some of what you are saying.

I think whats going to throw peps off is when you said "especially black women". What did you mean by that? I am a black women I would like to know.
 
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bluewater123456789 replied to caramelskin01's response:
MY BAD I'M GONNA TO APOLOGY FOR WHAT I SAID I DIDN'T MEANT IT LIKE LIKE THAT I'AM SO SORRY FOR WHAT I SAID ABOUT BLACK WOMANS BECAUSE I'AM BLACK WOMAN MAYBE I SHOULD SAY SOMETHING ONCE AGIAN I'AM SO SORRY I WON'T EVER SAY THAT AGAIN OKAY
 
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bluewater123456789 replied to caramelskin01's response:
I WASN'T TRYING TO THROW ANYBODY OFF AT THE TIME BUT THANKS FOR UNDERSTANDING FOR I SAYING I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE I ONCE HAD A FRIEND WHO DONE THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN SHE ASK ME FOR ADVICE I WAS HONSET WITH HER SHE DIDN'T LISTENING TO ME I TOLD HER THAT IF YOU WAIT ON GOD AND PRAY YOU FOUND THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE WHO WILL BE THERE FOR HER AS ALWAY'S SHE DID'NT LISTENING TO ME SHE SAID SHE CAN'T BE ALONG I SAID TO HER SHE WILL BE ALONG IF SHE KEEP ON DOING SHE WAS DOING BY SLEEPING DIFFERENT MENS I SAID SHE WILL BE SIX FEET UNDER AND SHE WAS A GROWN WOMAN SHE WAS 39 AT THE TIME NOT A CHILD THE REASON SHE SAID BECAUSE WAS JEALOUS OF ME BECAUSE I FINALLY FOUND THE RIGHT MAN IN MY LIFE SHE WANTED I TRY TO HELP BUT SHE DIDN'T WANNA LISTENING ME I'AM 41 YRS OLD AND MY BOYFRIEND 31 YRS OLD I TRIED TO HELP I GOT TIRED OF TRYING TO HELP HER AND I STOP GIVING HER ADVICE WELL THAT'S IT I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT I JUST TYPE


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