You really need to get educated on what herpes is and how it is transmitted. Look at my signature line and there is lots of helpful info. If you are going to stay with this guy then you know all you can about herpes and how to protect your self. I would really recommend that you get Terri Warrens Book
And until you know the risks I do agree with the other poster that you use a condom till you are fully educated.
Read more in the Herpes Handbook. Watch the Herpes Video and Terri Warren's book The Good News about the Bad News. All located under the heading Herpes at http://www.westoverheights.com/