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collegeboy92 posted:
hey guys, im not sure if this is the right board to post this to, but oh well. this is my first semester of college and im not living at home anymore. im renting an apartment with 3 other guys from college who are 18-23 yrs old. i spent the day at my parents place this past week and i left my key to my apartment their. well my mom called me when i was at my apartment when myself and the other guys were all messing around. we are not gay or anything, but we were all in the living room jacking off to porn and messing with each other slightly. but anyways, my mom called and asked if she could drop my key off at my apartment because she was in town, i told her not to, (for obvious reasons), and she agreed. however, 30 minutes later my father walks into my apartment with the key to leave it on the table and walks in on his son with three other guys. We were doing a circle jerk so everyone had someones hand had someone elses cock in it. With cum on all of us. He flipped and left. Now my dad does not want to talk to me. But me and the guys were just messing around. How do i convince him other wise? Please help me.
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An_208221 responded:
Your father should be the one apologizing. He had no right to just walk into your appartment like that. Especially after you asked your mother not to drop by. Doesn't he know that you KNOCK and wait for an answer when visiting other people??? You don't just BARGE in. He was invading the privacy of the other guys as well as yourself.

I'd give him a little time to pull himself together and if he doesn't want to talk to you then he doesn't want to talk to you. There is nothing you can say or do to "convince" him of anything. He saw something that he didn't like and it's up to him whether he can accept that or not.
 
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HairyD replied to An_208221's response:
collegeboy, This I tough issue; your father should have knocked. But would have open the door. By the time everyone had shower and dressed. He would thought nobody was home. Are did he knock and nobody heard him.Therefore he enter to leave the key.
Does he pay the rent? Does he the know the guys you were jerking off? Have your father and you had talks about sex.
Now stop and role play. If you were to walk into your father room. He was circle jerking with four friends. How would you react.
Call you father tell him. Tell him man to man you have to talk. You have to understand he sent you to college to learn and study for a education. If it was male on male, male on female. Do you want to walk in on your parents doing it.
(I did with my father and girlsfriends . Parents were divorces.) It's weird.
You must open the discussion. Explain this was a sex experience .
 
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HairyD replied to HairyD's response:
did i said NOT sexual, only playing. Male on male in my generation was gay. So give you father time and talk this out. If it becomes sexual let the family now the person as a person first. If the know the men, he may understand. Male have jerked or watch a jerk but not hands on another's penis
 
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An_208222 replied to HairyD's response:
" did he knock and nobody heard him"


A respectful parent would have left the key in the letter box.
 
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longduckdong46 replied to An_208222's response:
Well I think a better place to post this would have been the man to man community board. There are alot of guys over there who are into this type of behavior.
If my son was involved with any type of this activity I would have had the exact same reaction as your father.
You claim not to be gay, but you all were touching each other and you further stated that cum was all over you and the other guys.
Collegeboy..that IS A gay act no matter how you try to dress it up. Your father is probably very stunned right now, and it will be difficult for him to just let this pass. Regardless as to whether or not he just walked in on you, and it was right or wrong to do so.


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