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    . . . . . to increase my sex time span !!!
    An_208305 posted:
    i m really going through a hard time. let me first tell the whole story. .......
    We've been in a relationship for 8 years. we had our first make out back in 2007, for three years now. from the very beginning there used to be likely about 7-8 minutes of foreplay......but i used to *** out so damn early.....2 - 3 minutes !!!!! then we used to take a break for about 20 minutes by lying down together, after that we used to start making out again....this time it takes about 10 - 15 minutes to ***......but the matter is at that time my girlfriend usually dries it has been being quietly enjoyed !!!!! RECENTLY.........whats been happening is that, after the first *** penis is not getting stiff enough to start. AND its been making a big unsatisfactory problem among us. she has started questioning about my ability. WE WANT TO IMPROVE IT.


    ontbear responded:
    You didn't say how old you are. The older we men get the more time it takes for the "second" go around. Don't get up tight about it. your parter may want to use a vaginal lub for the 2 time pa
    Ali016 replied to ontbear's response:
    i m 23 now . can u please tell me that is it a normal problem or something serious?? and i didnt understand the "vaginal lub for the 2 time pa" term.....

    tlkittycat1968 replied to Ali016's response:
    That sound normal. It usually takes a man, no matter how old he is, longer to climax the second time around, especially if it's only been 20 minutes since the first time.

    The pp meant to use aritificial lubrication for the second time around if your girlfriend gets dry before you climax again.
    Ali016 replied to tlkittycat1968's response:
    thanx bro for your response. but what i meant lastly is that, at the second time my sex organ doesn't response...... it doesn't get hard enough to act with which i am not used to. this problem started recently. can u tell me about that matter?
    1HappyDaddy10 replied to Ali016's response:
    I am 20 years old and I have been having the same problem. However, mine does last a little longer. The first time I can go for about 5 mins, but then my wife and I lie there and hold each other. After about twenty mins, we can start again, and on occasion I can go for a couple of hours. Lately (the past two months), I have only been able to go a few mins and then I can't get back aroused. I have no problem initially. My wife never goes dry like that, but she does get frustrated (she thinks I been with others or I don't want her).

    I was really upset about this issue last week when I fail horribly on our anniversary. I talked to her for several hours about it, and she told me I needed to get this checked out. I got on here hoping that I'm not the only person with this problem, and I see now that I'm not. WebMD lead me to do some Google searches. I found quite a bit of information (after you overlook all the porno junk) on something called premature ejaculation. I am a little ashamed of it, but its very common. I figured out that my problem is that I'm so afraid it's going to happen that I cause it. I've decided that I'm going to just go with the flow, but my wife has been gone since then.

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