i'm cheating with a married man, i love the attention, the affection, the sex, gifts, and mostly the calls and talks. my question is, why does this man lie about home? no way that i know for sure, but after a year, im thinking home life cant b this bad. he says she never cooks, never cleans, never wants sex, never laughs, he's miserable, wants to leave, but not his daughter. i could care less about him leaving, dont care if he stays there for therest of eternity, ive never or would ever ask him to leave them, just dont care like that. i dont lie to him, and just am very curious as to why he would paint such a dismal picture of home. any men that feel honest enough, i figure this is the place to get some honest answers.. help if you can-
b/c he may feel he gets more sympathy and attention from you with a sob story...who knows maybe it is true, how would you know he's lying?? Some people do stay in miserable marriages for the children, which btw the makes it harder on the children, so kind of defeats the purpose! Kids would rather be from a broken home than to live in one...
do not have any proof, just a feeling.. i mean, i cant see her as being "that" bad, yet he stays with her.. she may not be his idea of a perfect wife, but a perfect spouse doesnt exsist. Ive just heard it said over and over agian, that men lie and paint a dismal pic of home, and I'm just curious. I thought maybe a man could share his view point here..
he may not be lying at all.. are you lying as well? cheating is lying to someone anyways, but the things that he talls you about his wife may infact be the truth. Many couples are unhappy, and dissatisfied. youve been in this a year, if he's singing the same song about her, and he's cheating with you, maybe she is that bad. Maybe he does want to leave.. you both are cheating because you are unhappy for whatever reason.. I think you two should divorce, get together, make the best of what you started, do your spouses a favor, kids are resilient, and later on they want parents happy! good luck, i will never condem for I have not walked in their shoes.
Maybe she doesn't cook or clean to his satisfaction. Maybe he is an ass. A person that is cheating has a lot of flaws themselves. Maybe she knows he is cheating and is depressed about it and cannot be bothered to clean or cook for him. One thing is clear if he is cheating and maybe she is too..... there are a lot of issues going on in that home and the fact the he is boasting about it to someone that doesn't give a crap is not even close to fixing the problems. He needs to talk about it to her or a professional.
I would say though the fact that she is very unhappy says she most likely knows he cheating...
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