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dating several ppl

An_208183 posted:

dated several guy at one time one for lunch and another one for dinner, and never got cought...but when i met my hubbie i couldnt do it no more, why??? i dont know maybe cause i felt he was the one and he is i love that men

how many guys/girls have you dated at the same time and did you ever got cought?

4 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:dating several ppldated several guy at one time one for lunch and another one for dinner, and never got cought...but when i met my hubbie i couldnt do it no more, why??? i dont know maybe cause i felt he was the one and he is i love that men <img src="http://img.webmd.com/community/images/smile.gif" align="top" border="0"> how many guys/girls have you dated at the same time and did you ever got cought?

butterfly19790424 responded:

Never ever ever dated more than one guy at a time. I tried it once, but I don't have the time or energy.

I feel once you have sex with someone, you are in an exclusive relationship. I don't take sex lightly. Maybe thats the older girl in me.

Report This| Share this:dating several pplNever ever ever dated more than one guy at a time. I tried it once, but I don't have the time or energy. I feel once you have sex with someone, you are in an exclusive relationship. I don't take sex lightly. Maybe thats the older girl in me.

IslandL responded:

Can't say that I've ever wanted to. When I found someone I was interested in, I just wanted to focus on him. And I'm not into "sharing" either.

I haven't tried internet dating sites though, and it's my impression that it's the norm for people who use them to date more than one person at a time? I can see the idea of keeping your options open working in theory, just not sure it would work for me in practice - for very long anyway.

Report This| Share this:dating several pplCan't say that I've ever wanted to. When I found someone I was interested in, I just wanted to focus on him. And I'm not into "sharing" either. I haven't tried internet dating sites though, and it's my impression that it's the norm for people who use them to date more than one person at a time? I can see the idea of keeping your options open working in theory, just not sure it would work for me in practice - for very long anyway.

lissmeanstrouble replied to IslandL's response:

Yes I notice that guys I end up talking to on internet dating sites, already have like 4 girls they are interested in. It kind of makes me feel like whats the point? This is another good tip for my friend abacadabra if he reads this.... that alot of women may not take men on dating sites as seriously because alot of men are players... its sad cause women can have a large spectrum of ideals on men lol and we will try to apply one of these ideals to anyone and everything at times... especially when we are nervous. Am I wrong? I dont think so...
I was dating 3 men at once a few months ago. I stopped seeing two of them when I had sex with a really good friend of mine. He and I never got very serious... yet.... but I couldnt keep seeing other men after I slept with him and that made me think alot ya know...

Report This| Share this:dating several pplYes I notice that guys I end up talking to on internet dating sites, already have like 4 girls they are interested in. It kind of makes me feel like whats the point? This is another good tip for my friend abacadabra if he reads this.... that alot of women may not take men on dating sites as seriously because alot of men are players... its sad cause women can have a large spectrum of ideals on men lol and we will try to apply one of these ideals to anyone and everything at times... especially when we are nervous. Am I wrong? I dont think so... I was dating 3 men at once a few months ago. I stopped seeing two of them when I had sex with a really good friend of mine. He and I never got very serious... yet.... but I couldnt keep seeing other men after I slept with him and that made me think alot ya know...

IslandL replied to lissmeanstrouble's response:

And I think that may be true of alot of women: if they sleep with one man, it may feel disloyal to continue dating others, even if the sexual relationship proves to be casual or short lived.

Report This| Share this:dating several pplAnd I think that may be true of alot of women: if they sleep with one man, it may feel disloyal to continue dating others, even if the sexual relationship proves to be casual or short lived.

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