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An_240344 posted:
First got pregnant in Oct. of 2011, had a m/c in Dec. D&C in January of 2012.

Now that we are able to try again, my DH can't maintain an erection.

Feel so helpless, and like I'm not meant to have kids.
2 Replies |Watch This Discussion | Report This| Share this:How to DealFirst got pregnant in Oct. of 2011, had a m/c in Dec. D&amp;C in January of 2012.<br /> <br />Now that we are able to try again, my DH can't maintain an erection.<br /> <br />Feel so helpless, and like I'm not meant to have kids. <img src="http://img.webmd.com/community/images/frown.gif" align="top" border="0">
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Prayforamiracle responded:
I'm very sorry for your loss. You have definitely found a place where we all understand what you are going through.

Perhaps your DH, is feeling a lot of pressure and that is causing him some problems. Sometimes if I mention to my dh that I think I might be ovulating and we should try, he doesn't seem to want to know those details. He would rather think we are bding, because we want to instead of having to.

I hope with time things will improve. Good luck.
Prayforamiracle-Me(37)Dh(44)TTC since 11/06. Only pregnancy ended in miscarriage in 7/07. Dealing with MFI. Anovulatory and irregular cycles due to PCOS. 1st IUI 1/12=BFN, 2nd IUI 2/12=BFN
Report This| Share this:How to DealI'm very sorry for your loss. You have definitely found a place where we all understand what you are going through.<br /><br />Perhaps your DH, is feeling a lot of pressure and that is causing him some problems. Sometimes if I mention to my dh that I think I might be ovulating and we should try, he doesn't seem to want to know those details. He would rather think we are bding, because we want to instead of having to. <br /><br />I hope with time things will improve. Good luck.
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perry147 responded:
Sorry for your loss but I agree with Pray. My DH works best when it seems more spontanious even though he knows its based on timing. Or talk to your Dr about viagra or something maybe just to use it when he has to perform.
Me 43 DH 41 DS 9/10/10 2m/c @ 8wks 4/09 and 11 wks d
Report This| Share this:How to DealSorry for your loss but I agree with Pray. My DH works best when it seems more spontanious even though he knows its based on timing. Or talk to your Dr about viagra or something maybe just to use it when he has to perform.
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