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    shanastash posted:
    having to hear that SO MANY women/girls in my life are pregnant right now is really getting to me. i keep finding out, almost every week, that someone new is pregnant. and ALL of them so far, wasn't planning it or isn't too thrilled to be knocked up. UGH! i hate it. i am SO jealous of soooo many women right now, i just wanna cry.

    don't get me wrong, i am happy to hear about it, but it's like a knife in my gut EVERY time. there's about 8 knives in my gut right now...i don't know if i can hold in my emotions much longer...
    Shana-29, Darrin-31, angel baby (fishie-14w5d) 10.10.09. Dx: MTHFR and FV Leiden. BFP 3.12.10 DD 11.16.10 Rx: Lovenox 40 mg (when pg), baby asprin, 1000 mcg folic acid... and PRAYERS!
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    l8dsheena responded:
    I'm sorry Shana....I've been there too (and probably will be again). Some women have never lost a child, or pregnancy comes easy to them, so they don't know what an amazing gift a baby is.
    I know you're not looking for advice right now, so let me say my heart is with you. I pray that you find some comfort and peace today...and the next, and the next. One day at a time...
    **((hugs))* and prayers
    Myself (Katie, 29) and DH(31) Praying and trying for a 4th child for 3 years. 1 missed m/c @ 17 weeks, D/C 3 weeks later on 5/11/12.
    As Aragorn says, there's always hope.
     
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    perry147 responded:
    I'm sorry Shana. I think we have all been through what your feeling. Your not alone. I agree with what Katie said. I remember my SIL announced her pregnancy about a week after I had my DC (nobody knew about it) but it was hard, especially when they kept asking when we would have kids. Now they ask if we're going to have more or we should have another one. How do you answer that? I'm a very private person and I don't like everybody knowing so I just try to brush it off by saying I'm to old but I feel like saying I wish, I've been trying for years. Just remember you can always vent here. Sending you calming vibes and a few prayers as well. Hope you have a great weekend, go eat chocolate, it helps me. haha!!!
    Me 44 DH 42 DS 9/10 2m/c @ 8wks 4/09 and 11 wks D/C 9/09 diagnosed w/ 2 mutations of MTHFR. TTC 2 m/c3 9/11, m/c4 2/12, m/c5 D/C2 10/12/12. Currently trying Follistem and Menopur.


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