I suggest you contact Theralogix directly. They staff Registered Dietitians who will talk to you for free, and they also have a highly respected medical advisory board who create all those products. They're extremely science heavy, so grill them for answers.
The research on ingredients is posted on the Theralogix web site for you to look at. But I know that it is not a quid pro quo for those doctors. They do NOT get paid for each bottle sold.
SR has saw palmetto and beta sitosterol, both of which show evidence of benefit for urinary symptoms, but require regular use for about 2 months before you experience an effect. Prostate 2.3 is usually recommended for patients with risk of prostate cancer and has nothing to do with BPH.
It is very true that ESPECIALLY with herbals without certification or standardization you have no idea how potent the product is and may get nowhere near the necessary dose. That's ANY herbal product that is not certified/tested for content accuracy, not just saw palmetto.
The Costco product isn't at all similar to either of the Theralogix products you named, so I'm uncertain how you can make a real comparison, since they're quite dissimilar. And if price is your only concern, that's something you should discuss with your doctor, who knows your health risks better than any manufacturer could.
The FDA does NOT allow claims on any product bottle for treatment or prevention of any disease that hasn't gone through FDA trials and approval, even if you see that little asterisked note. If you see any product making health claims, report it to the FDA, because it's illegal. There are a few exceptions like omega-3 for heart health, calcium for bone health, etc. but in general, if the product is making a health claim, it's probably breaking the law. I don't see any claims being made on any of those three products you mentioned.