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    An_267284 posted:
    My father-in-law lost his wife about 6 weeks ago and since moving home has stopped eating. Everything we fix for him ends up in the garbage. He does drink water and orange juice, but says the protein shakes his doctor recommended for him are too sweet. We try to get him to eat, but he just refuses. He has lost over 20 pounds since moving home. Are there any suggestions for things we can try to bring him back to what he was before? It is almost like he is trying to die, but he says he isn't. He has dementia also.
     
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    editor_morgan responded:
    Hi there and thanks for posting,

    I can't imagine what your father-in-law is going through. I remember when my grandmother died, my grandfather would always say, "I feel like I lost my right arm." The bond between certain couples is so strong that when one of them passes on, the remaining of the two is sometimes irrevocably devastated and left feeling lost in this world.

    Here are links to information that you might find helpful:

    Stages of Grief

    Grief & Depression

    Grief and Grieving - What Happens

    Caring for Someone with Dementia

    YOU and your family needs support as well. Those taking care of someone with dementia experience a lot of stress and emotional fatigue. Click here to read more about support for caregivers of patients with dementia.

    Have you spoken to you father-in-law's doctors and updated them on his condition? Keep close communication with his doctors, especially now after the death of his wife.


    Please give my condolences to your family during this tough, tough time.

    We ARE here for you ((hugs)).


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