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    What a Great Experience this group has become. The kinship in Brotherhood. There is such a diverse range of topics. This is the place we can be as open as we want to be... Everyone is welcome to join, but it is not a place to Cruise. It's for sharing sexual questions and comments among men.
    Lasting to long jacking off
    moepedman posted:
    Is this normal I last 20 minute or more jacking off depends non stop rubbing My erection Stands up so very hard the whole time. when I am about to ejaculate I let go of my cock it's still standing up very hard and jumping back and forth I don't touch it I just make it move by the muscle until I shoot my ejackulation with out rubbing it. I an in my 50's
    stevesmw responded:
    20 minutes is too long. I would say 5 minutes is about average. There isn't a class that I am aware of for male masturbation. Technique is self taught. My technique when I was younger was rubbing as I got older and my hands got bigger I stroked trying to emulate intercourse. Do you use varied techniques? A good water based lubricant is important, particularly if you need 20 minutes.

    I've frequently used masturbation to condition my penis to last longer in intercourse. Getting to the point of orgasm and then stopping stimulation. If I had time I might do this or more than 20 minutes.

    I'm 68 now and my erection is no where near what it was when I was in my early sixties. If I can't orgasm in 10 minutes now, I either give up or use a vibrator.

    If you last 20 minutes with a firm erection, you should be looking for a partner, because that's a good skill set for intercourse.
    diseasefighter responded:
    hi, i am a woman, so i don't know it is normal or not. but as a woman, i think this is excellent. but because of the long time, you have a higher chance of affecting prostatitis. thus, it is vital for you to learn some prevention of this disease. here is a site you may needed:
    georgemed222 responded:
    This is too long only if you feel it is too long; I myself love a long masturbation and feel especially blessed when I have the time to indulge in one. One piece of advice I would give you if you typically masturbate for lengthy periods of time is to think about regularly using a good penis nutrient cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil). Why? Well, after a really good long workout, your penis is apt to be sore or may have some skin irritation. Using a good cream, especially one with alpha lipoic acid which helps prevent penile "aging," keeps it feeling healthy and better prepared for the next go-round.
    tasty14 responded:
    Longer the better, nothing wrong with edging. I've masterbated for over 2 hours if I'm horny. Makes for a powerful finish.
    stevesmw replied to tasty14's response:
    edging is great, but if you don't, 20 minutes is a long time to orgasm when you are trying to orgasm relatively quickly.
    thesicklychild replied to stevesmw's response:
    Have no idea if 20 minutes or ten mintues is too long to cum if you are really trying. What I can say is that I celebrate the day that I discovered edging and that many other men enjoy it too. It's is as good a sexual experience as I ever need, and I had what I believe to have been a great sex life with my spouse and others before her..
    I am married but my wife cannot enjoy sex anymore as a consequence of age and a medical procedure years ago.
    I am a Phd.- level edger and strongly posetlylize for it,whenever I can. When I was younger, it was 'jerk and go. Fine. Now that I'm older (over 60), getting there is more than half the fun. Riding the waves of sexual tension and pleasure is remarkable! Is there anything as exciting as knowing that you are deeply engaged in sexual activity, for hours? I have gone weeks without release, enjoying daily sessions of 30 minutes to several hours of self stimulation. Sometimes I watch porn or visit an online site of fellow edgers.
    When the inevitable release does happen, it's intense and deeply satisfying.
    Anyone who denies himself or herself this experience is missing something wonderful!
    seattleron responded:
    that is funny gig yu got going. How would you like to extent your 20 min to two hours? I read about and ordered this ANEROS Helix prostrate massager. check it out. I found some of the best info with a wiki.
    seattleron replied to stevesmw's response:
    Hey read your post. I am also 68 and started two weeks ago on TRT testestrone Replacement Thearpy.. I am in the normal but I am training at the gym and wanted to be back in my 40's level. Anyway, I asked my friend I got the tess from how I would know when it had kicked it.. Watch for the morning wood..Wow was he right.

    The other thing I checked into and then purchased from Amazon is the Aneros Helix.Read about it online. I am famous for purchasing things like this and leaving them on the shelf. But on this one want to experience it a few times.
    seattleron replied to tasty14's response:
    what does Tasty14 do to prolong it that long?
    seattleron replied to thesicklychild's response:
    I mentioned on this site about the Aneros Helix prostrate massager. 1-2 hour sessions You guy should check it out online. I ordered one... not here yet.
    jiminmke replied to seattleron's response:
    I have several Aneros prostate massagers, including the Helix. I love them, especially the Helix. I it takes some time to learn to use them without using your hands. I been able to cum hands-free several times. It feels very good while stroking the shaft as well. Intense feeling and pleasure! Hope you enjoy yours.
    putrawartini responded:
    I thing you're so lucky can last 20 minutes... really I can't stand more than 3 minutes
    ironbody replied to jiminmke's response:
    I have several aneros massagers. My favorite is my progasm. Enjoyed first prostate massage at 16, love hot prostate play

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