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    How to bring up the subject with family
    An_222261 posted:
    My nephew is 2 1/2. Cannot speak a single word, does not respond to his own name, does repetitive motions with his hands, does not interact with any kids not even his brother, does not respond to stimulus, screams if you touch him, does not eat..literally...he lives off PediaSure. Has every sign of autism out there. It breaks my heart. My sister in law just thinks he has a speech delay and has him working with a speech therapist. I think she has just lived with it so long, she thinks his other behavior is normal. I am a parent and I promise you it is not. I feel like a monster, because I do not how to deal with him when I babysit. I know that early intervention would mean a WORLD of difference to him and it kills me to see them wasting time.

    What do you think? How do I suggest testing to her? Or do I keep my mouth shut?
    mlw216 responded:
    I find it hard to believe that he is completely living off of pediasure and her doctor isn't concerned or convinced there is something else going on. Are you sure she does not know there is something off and is just not admiting it to anyone?
    pmw68 responded:
    Do you think you could have a heart to heart with your brother? It is a touchy subject because no one wants to hear that their child is not typical. If you could speak to your brother about your concerns and offer some websites to check out. I don't know where you live, but there are usually early intervention programs that have websites. All the parent needs to do is call and ask for a consultation. If you approach out of love, do much of the leg work for them so they would be a little more open to making "just a call", and listen, that is all you can do. There are so many supportive sites that your sister-in-law and brother can find. Early intervention is key, and a diagnosis can be an open door for hope. As Temple Grandin ( a famous woman with aspergers) said: He is different, not less. I know I will never count my son out of the game. He has made such strides since he was 2 1/2. It is different for all children, but there is more help out there than ever, more support for families, and hopefully a direction toward acceptance. Please let us know how it goes.

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