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I can tell you what worked well for us...
You can increase the amount of semen you ejaculate quite easily with a nutrient you can get at any drug store or health food store. It's called Lecithin, or Soya Lecithin (same thing). It is sold as a supplement that improves your nerve health. It's not a drug, but an extract from soybeans. It comes in big 1200 mg softgel capsules and only costs about 8 bucks for 100 of them.
I don't take them all the time, rather, I start the day before I know we're going to have sex. You pretty much have to mega-dose them, that is, take 3-4-5 capsules about 4 times a day. After only 2 days, with me, I ejaculate almost twice as much as without them. Plus, my semen is whiter and thicker, and Heather says it tastes milder and sweeter.
I like to do this for the visual effect, plus my wife really enjoys swallowing my semen and the more there is the more she likes it.
I read this a good 20 years ago in an article in a porn magazine. The article said this was the method that many porn stars use to increase the size of their loads. I have intentionally researched this further to find out if there are any negative side effects to taking this much lecithin, and there apparently aren't any. Again, this is a natural substance that is a simple nutrient, and the only known side effect is that it can supposedly make your head hair grow more quickly. I can't say that has ever happened to me, and I've been using Lecithin like this for 20 years now.
I suppose you could take it in high doses like this all the time, but to be honest it gets to be sort of a pain swallowing 4-5 of those huge gelcaps 4 times a day, so I only do it on weekends or special occasions when I know we're going to have time for some good sex.
I can tell you that my orgasms feel espcially good when I take the Lecithin, because of the sheer amount of semen I'm ejaculating and because it's thicker...I can feel the semen squirting from deep inside all the way to the tip of my penis and it's very very pleasurable. It also shoots quite a bit further, probably again because it's thicker. I normally ejaculate inside Heather, but sometimes she likes "belly shots" or "breast shots". Without the lecitihin I from the missionary position I usually shoot about as far as her belly button, but with the lecithin I can easily hit her breasts and neck from on my knees between her legs.
Another good thing is that it also seems to increase pre-ejaculate fluid (precum) by almost twice as much, and it seems to be more slippery, in fact, when I'm taking lecithin we can have anal sex without any lube other then my pre-ejaculate fluids.
Another thing that has increased my pleasure and distance is prostate massage and exercises that I do with an anal toy similar to the Aneros. I don't know if anal play is your cup of tea, but I am super-straight and I still enjoy it immensely. Thre eor four times a week I insert the anal toy and then consciously grip and release it for 10-15 minutes, which has strengthened the muscles used to ejaculate quite a bit. This has resulted in more intense orgasms and longer-distance ejaculations.
Give it a try, it only takes a couple of days to have an effect and at least for me I have some pretty impressive sized loads when I use it.
Matt