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    increase ejaculate load and force?
    iamunknown posted:
    my gf and i are trying to enhance our sexual satisfaction and one thing i'd like to see if i could work on is my ejaculate volume and a forceful ejaculation. ive seen ads for pills that will "increase your load" which i'm really skeptical about but have heard positive reviews, however i've also heard opinions about how you can't change the volume of ejaculate and that the pills are scams... but it just seems like there would be a way to it. (we've all seen pornos where a guy ejaculates bucket loads... and i can't imagine that's possible without pills or something else..)

    know hydration is part of it but is there anything else i can do to improve my results?

    what does zinc and/or l-arginine actually do for men with regards to sex?

    and lastly, i want to increase the force with which i ejaculate (i know this sounds stupid but i'd like to give my gf a little show instead of it just dribbling out.), is there anyway to do this? like do kegel exercises help strengthen the muscle(s) you ejaculate with allowing you to "shoot" your load? i've only done the exercises a few times (i think i do them wrong, i dunno) and i was thinking that if i held the muscle(s) really tight for as long as i could right before i climaxed, maybe that would allow me to start ejaculating farther...

    i'd appreciate any advice, tips, solutions that you could give me. thank you.
    compressor replied to wifeandmomof2's response:
    hi lisa ,
    well i was looking for your update on you and hubby and not seen one?so did he get the pills and has it been worth while for you?? looking forward to your responce...?
    An_252423 replied to crazyfoot40's response:
    Yeah, it's a lot easier with girls involved.

    I also tried lecithin. I used to take the pills but it got too difficult and hard to swallow with all the pills I was taking. So I tried granules after reading this.
    claibigz responded:
    I was researching how to increase ejaculate volume and came across your post as well as a few others. I kept see references being made to a supplement called Soy Lecithin so I decided to conduct some research on it. After finding out that most of the soy lecithin was derived from GMO soy, I decided to look for non GMO soy lecithin and was directed to sunflower lecithin. After more research, I decided to buy a bottle of sunflower lecithin by a company called 'Now'.

    Every once in a while, my girl gets a little frisky and likes to give me a head session (nothing but head until I climax). She called Monday and said she wanted to see me on Friday so, on Wednesday, I decided to take a pill after each meal through Friday. My girl came over last night and I had the most powerful release I have ever had (I'm 39). Not only was the release powerful, it lasted for a long time. I awakened in the middle of the night to use the restroom. I felt so weak and drained. I felt like I was going to pass out as I was standing in the bathroom.

    Upon waking this morning, my girl said my release was WAY more than normal. Not to share to much or go into how she described it or how she gauged it, in the end she thinks it was around 4 times more than normal. What's funny is, I'm not going to tell her what I did. I was skeptical at first but now I'm a believer, lecithin is the truth.
    1957hank responded:
    I know this may sound a bit weird but does it really matter how much semen is released during ejaculation? I could understand if a couple is trying to conceive the more the better chances are. However, if preventing conception is important or a couple is past child bearing years, does it matter? Are women aroused by the amount of semen? Does it mean it was a better love making session due to the amount of semen? Do women feel they are responsible for the amount of semen released? Sorry but we have been married for 36 years and could not ask my wife this question. I guess thankfully I don't release a lot. My wife is not too keen about clean up afterwards and I try to avoid getting it on her. Sorry if that is too graphic.
    stevesmw replied to 1957hank's response:
    It' never been an issue with my wife. This is a men's issue. More is better from a psychological and physical (orgasm) point of view. If you had more when you were younger and less now, you would like to return to your youth. If you are masturbating it is visually more pleasing. A delayed orgasm seemed to produce more ejaculate and a longer stronger orgasm.

    There's also an unavoidable association with porn where the male would let go a large visible ejaculation.
    goodfolk replied to 1957hank's response:
    There is nothing weird about you. It sounds like you have what most people would consider a very conservative sex life - but it seems to work for the two of you since neither of you seem to have expressed to the other a desire to change or add to what you do.
    Obviously the people on this thread are into the visual, tactile aspects of semen and ejaculation and find it highly erotic. To answer your question: yes - some women do find it highly erotic. My wife for one loves how much it turns guys on. That, in itself, is highly erotic. If you're not into oral sex, and always ejaculate inside her then clearly the volume, texture, etc... doesn't matter at all.
    (although I'm going to look into this theory that greater volumes of ejaculate improve the quality of the orgasm. Not sure I buy it but I am not one to leave a theory untested! )
    goodfolk replied to georgia1965's response:
    Georgia: I always thought this was an old wives tale but having recently tried it, I can say it actually works - impressively: pineapple. (not for volume - for taste) My wife was so thrilled with the effect that after discovering this she has been keeping the refrigerator well stocked with juice and I have fresh cut pine apple waiting for me for breakfast every weekends.
    nohard responded:
    Hi Ok for force you just need to kegel, its a very simple exercise that men can do anywhere and at anytime, you don't need to be in some special place, and the two kinds, just go to www, and look under exercises.

    When it comes the wife giving you oral sex and she wants that bit extra down the throat, then let her massage your prostate why giving you oral, that will do it.

    But as for help try these Muira Puama and Catuaba both will help getting that extra load, or you can mix them in a sex drink for both of you, its a South American sex drink sold in bars, just follow this link,
    See how you get on then, who knows some day you may just hit the ceiling, that would be your jackpot.
    Good Luck Guys
    allessior replied to unknown's response:
    Yes, it definitely pleases the woman. If you ejaculate with more volume and force inside the vagina, then the female orgasm becomes much more intense and she can feel the difference in volume and force. She also likes to see large volume and long ropes if you ejaculate outside the vagina, since this makes her feel attractive because she was able to turn you on so much. There are biological reasons and psychological reasons for a woman's pleasure being enhanced with higher volume and higher force ejaculate
    bigred53 replied to allessior's response:
    I don't know where you got this information but as a woman I couldn't care less about the amount of ejaculate there is. Of course I do care that my partner climaxes but not how much ejaculate.

    Does it make a man feel more manly to be able to shoot a big load?

    nohard replied to bigred53's response:
    Hi Michelle, Only if your a porn star, and finish with a face job.
    I cant stand to see that, it seems such a waste.

    Good Luck

    An_260072 replied to An_260183's response:
    another jerk heard bump

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